11 March, 2009

INTEGRITY .......Honesty is the best policy - but not the cheapest....if you tell the truth ,you don't have to remember anything ....Mark twain...

Do you keep your word?
In today's society .......People basically are not honest.
People think it's no "big Deal " if they lie and DO not keep their word.
In many work places deceit is rampant. Double standards rule the day.

Many times people get entangled in their lies. They forget exactly what they have said and in what order it was said.
There is a phrase: "Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive." How true that statement is!

In the dictionary, the word integrity means 1) an unimpaired condition, i.e., soundness, wholeness 2) firm adherence to a code of moral values, i.e., incorruptible, honor, 3) the quality or state of being complete or undivided, i.e., completeness. Synonyms of integrity are honesty and unity.
The word honesty means truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness. Another definition is freedom from deceit or fraud. A third definition of honesty is integrity.

Trust is bred by honesty. Those who have a reputation for lying or exaggerating many times can't get someone to believe them on their word alone.

The Vows we say must be said in truth and honesty (Be careful for what you promise because God will hold you responsible! Eph. 4:24-25 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another. When we act like Godly people full of honor and self-respect than we are pleasing to the Lord. Our Christian walk should be seen by everyone we meet. We should daily strive to leave our sins behind taking up our cross and following the Lord's example. We should daily work at changing our attitudes and bring our words into line with the Word of God.

Lying by not keeping one's word causes hurts, disappointments, disruptions and disharmony to the body of Christ. It makes people loose respect as well as creates conflicts and destroys relationships. Don't let the devil deceive you into breaking your word or make you think that you can justify altering your word to suit you. That is being deceptive and God sees right through it. This kind of pain can become bottled up inside a person's heart for years to come. We shouldn't allow the devil to divide us when the best thing we could do would be to honor our word in the first place. Integrity, honesty, decency, truthfulness and virtue are all required to show people that we love them. This is the will of the Father!

What does the Bible have to say about integrity?

Exodus 20: 16 "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor."
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal truthfully are his delight." Prov.12/22
In Psalm 34: 13 "Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking deceit."
Integrity means treating people fairly and honestly. (Leviticus 19:35-36, Deut 25:15, Proverbs 16:11-13)
Integrity is giving your word and keeping it. (Exodus 8:28-32)
Integrity will protect you. In Psalm 25, David prays that integrity and uprightness will protect him. How can it? (Psalm 25:21, Proverbs 2:7-8, 10:9, 11:3, 13:6)
Integrity is more valuable than riches. (Proverbs 28:6)
The Lord will test and judge your integrity. (1 Chronicles 29:17, Psalm 7:8)
The Lord hates lies and lack of integrity. (Zechariah 8:16-17)
Your character can be corrupted by bad company. (1 Corinthians 15:33)
Integrity will be rewarded. (1 Kings 9:4-5, Nehemiah 7:2, Psalm 41:11-12)
Your integrity should set an example. (Titus 2:7)

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